Chapter 5: Birthplace

I was born near the town of Kanawha in north central Iowa in the year 1928.  Since that date in history we have traversed this earthly landscape forward approximately 65 years.  It is interesting--and surprising to me--that if we could instead travel backward in time an equal number of years we would find ourselves in the very heart of the Civil War years when Abraham Lincoln was President.  North central Iowa during the Civil war in the 1860's was a vast, flat plain with lush prairie grass interrupted by occasional groves of trees located near lakes or streams.  It would not have been scenic in the eyes of most beholders, but if you had dug down below the thick grass, you would have seen a couple of feet of black, loose soil with immense potential for productive farming.


With the coming of railroad lines to this part of the country in the l870's, settlers began moving in.  By virtue of the Homestead Act passed by the United States Congress in 1862, these settlers were able to acquire for practically nothing 160 acre plots of this land, one half mile by one half mile square.  Many of these settlers were immigrants from the northern European countries.  Especially prevalent in north central Iowa in Hancock and Wright counties were the Germans and Norwegians, although there was a sprinkling of transplanted Americans of Irish and English descent as well.


As described elsewhere, the particular 160 acre farm that would become my birthplace, had been settled first by my grandparents in 1883.  

My father and all his brothers and sisters were born there, as were my own brothers and sister.  My father took over the farm in 1916 at the time he married my mother.  I came along 12 years and 10 months later.
            
The farm was two miles north and three miles west of the town of Kanawha.  Actually, Kanawha itself came into being about 15 years after my grandparents had opened the farm.  The town was plotted out and established in 1898 at a point along the Minneapolis and St. Louis railroad line and quite near the small Otter Creek which ran somewhat parallel to its main street and about a half mile west of it.
            
The farm buildings were located in the extreme northwest corner of the farm, placed at that location probably because there was a flowing well there which provided a constant source of water, summer and winter, and without the need of a pump.  This "flow" as we called it, was roughly equivalent to a block from where our house was located up on the crest of a small slope south and east of the flow.  Beyond the flow to the west, but mainly north, was a large grove of several hundred trees, which I presume had been there prior to the farm being opened.
            

A stone's throw to the west of the grove and not part of our property was a creek which we called "the crick."  

The creek flowed through an area of permanent pasture land just west of our property.  Cattle would often graze there.  About a half mile south the railroad from Kanawha to Denhart crossed over the creek on a bridge.  Several times a week we could watch the train puffing along on its route to Kanawha or Denhart and points east or west.
           
 Denhart was a small village one mile west of our farm with a population at that time of possibly 50 to 100 people.  The big grain storage elevator was the most prominent feature of the village and was reputed to be the tallest one in northern Iowa at the time.  Denhart also boasted a grocery store where candy could be purchased, as well as a blacksmith shop where horses were shoed and metal objects repaired.  The Basler brothers also hailed from Denhart and would become locally famous for their successes in the State Golden Gloves boxing tournaments.  Vance Basler went on to win it one year.
            

Many hours were spent playing in the grove and wading in the creek.  It was in the grove, I remember, that I acquired the technique of whistling and subsequently drove my family crazy for a few days perfecting the art.  

It was at the creek that I learned to love the water, not for boating, or fishing, or even for swimming, but for its own sake.  Mom would sometimes take sister Ruth and me swimming in the creek when the water was at a decent level.  Now, lest you get the idea that we went skinny-dipping, I want you to know that we had one-piece bathing suits that covered the whole torso.  Ruth's was red and mine was blue.  They had big spaces at the top on each side for our arms to fit through, and additional big spaces just below them in case one had an extra set of arms.   Skinny dipping, by the way, a sport engaged in mostly by young males, would come at a later age in the gravel pits and swimming holes of which there were several located in the general vicinity. 
            
To reach the house from the road running east-west along the north side of our farm, one would have to enter a lane which ran along the east side of the grove.  It was a long lane.  In the winter it would often be snowed in, and in the spring, deep with mud.  At the end of the lane and across the road lived the Omvigs, people of Norwegian descent.  They were good people, helpful, and made good neighbors even though Abel, the father, sometimes drank too much; and they didn't attend their Lutheran church very regularly.  Ruth and I often played with their girls who, although several years older, were only too eager to teach us school.  One day we went there to play and the Omvigs were gone, but since people rarely locked their houses when they went away, Ruth and I went in the house anyway, proceeded upstairs and began to play school by ourselves.  It felt strange and silent in the house, like we shouldn't be there, and we left after coloring just a few pictures.  Later, the Omvigs wondered who had been in their house and had played with their school materials.


The house in which I was born, was by modern standards, a shack, having a kitchen, living room, the parental bedroom (my birthplace), washroom-pantry and entrance porch on the first floor; and two bedrooms and a hallway on the second floor.  

The upstairs bedrooms, without the benefit of insulation, air conditioning or even fans, were stifling hot in the summer and frigid in the winter.  But a lot of living and learning went on in that house.  As very small children Ruth and I would often crawl into bed with our parents in the early morning and ask questions--questions about  whether sheep came from clouds, about death, about bugs and  babies, and where God came from.  My dad seemed to be the one who did most of the responding, but when the questions became too philosophical--or perhaps, too ridiculous--he would call a halt:  "You ask too many questions."
            

The kitchen also served as our dining room.  Here we had our meals and my dad would pray before and after each meal and my mother would usually read the Bible.  

Pa had difficulty with a lot of the words and would often spell them out orally before attempting to pronounce them.  Sometimes the Story Bible was read and when it was we learned something.  But when the Bible itself was read we were expected merely to remain respectfully silent.  Reverence.  That was intended to be the most important part of our education; understanding was strictly secondary.  Reverence of the kind demanded, was an almost impossible challenge, however, to fidgety little bodies seated around a table; and the temptation to smile across the table, snicker and laugh was virtually irrepressible, especially when cousins or other guests were present.  But my dad, while understanding of our frailty in the above situations, was nevertheless intent upon successfully teaching reverence in the more weighty matters where it might be threatened.  On one occasion--maybe it was a birthday--I had just received a little red car and was pushing it back and forth on the table, extending that activity from the meal time into the Bible-reading time.  My dad said firmly, "Now, stop that."  I did and withdrew my hand.  But then, I thought it would do no harm to be prepared to resume that activity immediately after the reading and prayer, so I stealthily placed my hand back on the toy.  "Whomp."  His big hand slapped my little face and sent me into an outburst of extended and convulsive bawling.  He hadn't hurt my face so much as my feelings by totally misinterpreting as disobedience my expedient and innocent move. I don't know whether I ever established my innocence on that issue, or whether I learned any real reverence for God from it, but I did learn to be conservative when Pa said "Stop it."  And, in some sort of way, I probably also learned that big people considered the Bible to be very important, not to be trifled with.
            

A lot of good times were spent in the living room.  Here is where visitors (we called them "company") would gather.  

We already had a radio in those days, a rectangular box with some knobs on it and a large round speaker set to the side or on top of the box.  I remember little about the radio except that the first popular songs in my memory were heard on that radio.  They were: "Red Sails in the Sunset" and "The Old Spinning Wheel."  More used, and sometimes abused, was the old Edison phonograph, a truly amazing machine which had cylindrical records over which a needle traversed and mysterious, squawky voices, usually in music, could be heard.  There were songs from the Civil War, like "Just Before the Battle, Mother," and songs from the World War: "When Johnny Comes Marching Home Again."  But our all-time favorite was "The Preacher and the Bear."  This song described the plight of a preacher who had encountered a bear in the woods, prompting him to climb a tree for safety and to send a petition heavenward which ended in the classic words: "Oh, Lord, if you can't help me, for goodness sake don't help that bear."  My parents were a bit embarrassed when Ruth and I played that record for Reverend Plesscher on one of his visits to our home.  Also exciting was the stereo optiscope, a device which enabled us to view pictures in life-like three dimension.  We spent hours upon hours going through a rather large collection of those photos covering among other things many pictures taken of battles and camps in the World War.

Underneath the kitchen was an unlighted and windowless cellar which was accessed from the outside in back of the house.  Potatoes and canned fruit were kept there and it served also as a refuge when severe storms would arise.  Drinking water was obtained from the flow, but there was a large cistern near the entrance to the storm cellar which caught and stored runoff rainwater from the roof.  This soft water was pumped by hand into our washroom and used for laundry and for washing our hands.
            
Our backyard was perhaps a quarter acre in size and was lined by box elder trees and a fence on the south, and a fence on the east.  On the east, a respectful distance from the house and opposite the prevailing winds, was also the outhouse, better known by us, but for unknown reasons, as the "privvy."  Northward and eastward of the house was a grape arbor.  For some reason I associate my first discussion of death with the grape arbor.  It was here that Ruth and I in our tender years first contemplated the rude and awesome realization that we would not live forever but would someday have to die.  How this somber thought was introduced into our young lives at that time I do not know.
            
Straight north of the house were a lilac bush and a snowball bush, and somewhere there are pictures to prove it since they formed a favorite background for my mother's photographic endeavors with the old Kodak box camera.  The lawn had grass and other green stuff on it, including little white daisy-like flowers.  Somewhere there is a picture to prove that too, showing all four of us children sitting among the grass and daisies during sweetcorn-canning time.  I have no recollection of a lawn mower ever being used on the backyard (we didn't even refer to it as a lawn).  Some farmers kept sheep to keep the lawn trimmed.  Probably the large hay mower was used on ours occasionally to keep the growth manageable.
            

The big red barn where the horses were kept, the cows milked, and the hay stored, was down the slope to the west and south of the house. 

The barnyard extended northward and allowed the animals to access the stock water tank which was constantly being filled by the flow.  This area was also often muddy because of the constant flow of water.
            
Other lesser buildings on the farm included a hog house and a chicken house south and west of the house quite near the barn, a corncrib west and north of the house, and a machine shed north of the house next to the lane about half way to the road. North of the machine shed and across the lane from the grove was an apple orchard where many peaceful hours were spent in the summer months munching on and digesting apples in various stages of ripeness.
            

A farm is in many ways an ideal setting for a boy to be introduced to the world, to life and to family.  

Where else does one have the opportunity to see so much of life and nature in one's own backyard?  Where else can a child better learn about work and responsibility?  Where could one better experience relationships with others in such a natural context?  And, where else would one be able to find the right blend of activity and solitude to discover and reflect on what life is all about?  It is interesting to speculate how much my life was shaped by the farm environment.  Would I have been a significantly different person had I been born and reared in a large city or in suburbia?  We don't have the luxury to determine an answer to that, of course.  Our very uniqueness is from a special recipe in which the inner self interacts with the total environment while being additionally impacted and directed by the gracious influence of the Holy Spirit. 

I am thankful for my rural--we called it "country"--upbringing in which my birthplace played a significant part.  The country, I think, has been good for me.  In any case, to borrow a very trite aphorism: "You can take the boy out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the boy."

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Chapter 4 A Promise Sealed





(This chapter is my attempt to elaborate on a significant ritual/sacrament of the church in which I grew up and still presently attend.  This chapter now as it stands is a bit involved theologically and may not be of equal interest to everyone, so let the reader be alerted to move on if so desired)



 It was Sunday, November 7 in the year of my birth, or maybe it was November 14, or October 31 --about that time--that I officially became a member in the world's most important family--God's ever-lasting, world-wide family.  It was a family which God himself was calling out and forming to become his own special people.  Just as I did not choose to become a part of my biological family, I didn't apply for membership in God's family either. Tiny infants are powerless to make any such decisions; but since I was on the scene, God invited my parents to present me for membership, and they did, confident that God's invitation was sincere.  As far as God was concerned all the requirements for membership in his family had been met, the dues paid for.  So, it was on that Sunday that God spoke his promise that he would accept me and, in addition, made a visible demonstration with water to confirm my membership in his family.
           
 I didn't hear God say anything, of course, or see him do anything either; nor did he expect me to at that time.  And, really, what he spoke and demonstrated was directed on that occasion largely for the benefit of my parents and for the Christian community of called out people gathered there in the Kanawha Christian Reformed Church.  They had come to hear a word from God and to witness in that service my becoming a part of that spiritual community in that rite of baptism.
            
In that service of baptism, this Mysterious Being we call God, the Being who is responsible for there being something rather than nothing, for the whole world and for all existence, and the One who accounted for me coming on to the stage of history at this particular time--this Being was giving the community gathered there another special insight into what kind of Being He was and is.  Yes, who really, is this Mystery we call God?  Assuming He is a personal being and not an It, what is He really like?  What is his attitude toward us?  Is He an exacting, heartless tyrant ruling a cowering creation?  Is He an indulgent, kindly, harmless old grandfather-type?  Or is He better compared to a super Santa Claus who loves to bestow gifts and demands nothing in return?  Is this Being we call God predictable?  Dependable?  Or arbitrary?  Can we know anything for sure about Him?  Are we who call ourselves human beings the deliberate, intentional products of His creative work?  If so, how do we relate to Him?   Does He have a purpose for bringing us here?  If so, what is that purpose?
            
These questions we have posed seem ridiculous to us, of course, because we have long been a part of the community to whom God has revealed the answers to those questions.  And as my church community was gathered there that Sunday in that service and baptismal ceremony God was providing another reminder that the mystery of his being had already been largely revealed.  He repeated who he was, and reminded them again of who they were, and who I, that little, bundled-up, squalling, red-faced infant, was too.  He reminded those people that morning about how we related to him.  He said he had called us out of a fallen, darkened world to live as a people of faith in his wonderful light. Like Abraham of old, whom he had called from among all the peoples of the earth to begin a special relationship with, we too were being formed into the people of God in a new era and a new place.  As with Abraham, God was promising that He would be God to them and to their descendants too.  The people of God, with a history going back to Abraham, was still being added to daily and hourly. And now it was my turn to be sealed into that family.
            
When God called Father Abraham out from among the peoples of the earth to become his person, he promised that he would do a great work through one of Abraham's descendants, a person who would bring a great blessing to the whole earth.  That person, we know now, was Jesus, and the blessing would come through the shedding of Jesus' blood; so as a seal of that promise of a blessing to come through shed blood, Abraham would have to be circumcised (a bloody rite).  But God instructed that his male offspring--even as babies--and his slaves and their offspring, the whole community that Abraham was responsible for, were to be circumcised too as a sign of God's promise of blessing which would be brought into the world through a seed of this people of promise, this covenant people.
            
Through Abraham and through his descendants, the people of Israel, God, after 2000 years of history, would at last bring the Great Sacrifice, the long-awaited Blessing.  Yes, finally, Jesus did come. He accomplished his work.  He gave his life and shed his blood, and now God could provide this salvation to a fallen and rebellious people over the whole earth, calling them to change their minds about Him, urging them to believe and to know that He was indeed good and wanted to be a gracious Father to them.  The mystery about God had been revealed.  He had demonstrated his love and his good intentions. Now He could urge His servants everywhere to call people who had been his enemies to become his friends, and those who had been rebels to become disciples; and to baptize them into the community of faith established by God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.  The blood, of course, had now been shed; so now the water of baptism would seal the fact that their sins were washed away. "The promise is to you, and to your children..."  The Philippian jailer in desperation had responded with faith to the pleas of Paul and Silas: "Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved--you and your household."  That very night, after further instruction, the jailer and all his family were baptized. 

No, I didn't choose to join this world-wide family of God.  But my parents were people of this community of faith, and they brought me to be baptized, just as they had done previously with Henry and Harold and Ruth.  The pastor, Rev. D.H. Plesscher, read the baptismal form which explained the purpose of baptism and why children ought not to be excluded from it even though they could not understand these things.  We were God's people. All of us there.  The little people who didn't realize it at the time too.  And like God's people in the old covenant whose children were circumcised as a sign and seal of the righteousness and forgiveness God had granted to them, we, his people of the new covenant, were to receive the sign of baptism.  Circumcision, the bloody rite had been replaced with the cleansing symbol of water, but the message was basically the same: "I will be your God and the God of your children.  Walk before me as my people.  You are called out to be a blessing to all the earth."
           
 And so it was that God spoke to my parents and the 250 or so others assembled there that morning. He told them that I too was a part of his redeemed community, and that through his Son he had done all that had to be done for that to be accomplished.  So this baptismal demonstration was not focused on what we had to do to win God's favor, now, or in the future.  No, God's favor had already been won, very effectively, through the obedient life and sacrificial death of Jesus.  The blood had been shed; the sacrifice completed.  We were already in His favor.  The sin problem had already been dealt with.  It was not that we now had the opportunity to become his people; we already were His people. Our response as the community of faith would now be to accept that as an accomplished fact and walk before Him as his grateful children.  Now, on this morning, he was reminding his people gathered there of their favored position and requiring of my parents and of the whole congregation to take that pronouncement seriously--to believe it.  "Train up this child.  Instruct him in these things, and cause him to be instructed therein."  They promised they would; and the promise was sincere, as sincere as flawed people were capable of being.
            
While God spoke to the community of called-out ones, I was officially, ceremonially, becoming a part of that community; and so God also spoke and demonstrated in my baptism an instruction for me as well.  It's like being made aware of belonging to my earthly family.  I belonged (in a sense) to my parents.  My parents were committed to loving, caring and providing for me.  It was not that I was on the outside having to earn that position of becoming their child, or having to do something to eventually win their acceptance.  No, I was already in.  I was their child and my birth certificate proved it, and I could count on their basic desire to seek my good so that I could become all that I was meant to be.  True, I could someday, if I foolishly chose, reject them, run away from home and live as an orphan; but as far as my parents were concerned, I belonged to them and I could count on them to be parents to me.  So my baptism was the Triune God's way of demonstrating to me what his attitude was toward me.  He regarded me as His child, and I could count on that.
            
And so what happened that November Sunday morning was focused not so much on what my parents did in presenting me, or even on what they promised to do as their part of the arrangement.  Nor was that rite of baptism calling attention to some dramatic decision I would someday be expected to make.  Of course, their commitment and nurture was crucial and called for; and, to be sure, I would be expected to respond to God in faith, believing his message and promises to be true and valuable; for not to respond to him is to reject him.   But the focus of my baptism was on what God was telling us of his good intentions toward us:  "I will be your God; you, then, be my people and you'll be blessed and become a blessing."  That's the gospel, the good news, conveying God's attitude toward us.  And we can bank on that attitude just as surely as we can produce evidence that we were baptized.  That's why a baptismal certificate was made out for me: to prove that God actually spoke and visibly demonstrated that message to us that November Sunday morning.

 As the years passed by, I eventually learned of my baptism.  It didn't mean much to me at first, or for a long time.  My parents were sincere; they did not have me baptized out of custom or superstition.  They tried to instruct me and cause me to be instructed in the ways of the Christian faith; but they were, nevertheless, weak in explaining to me the meaning of baptism, and it wasn't until I was far along into my adult years that I understood it.  I do not really fault my parents for that failure.  They, like many good people who were not well-schooled in things theological, probably did not grasp the full implication of the astounding message which baptism proclaims:  We are God's people, and this ceremony seals that relationship. They also, I realize now, were greatly influenced by the popular Arminian understanding that we are born outside of God's grace and must somehow be brought into his grace by a special act of faith. They may have also feared, I suspect, that being too emphatic about God already accepting us apart from anything that we can do--being too Reformed--would encourage complacency.  There was a notion abroad in my earlier years that emphasizing too much one's secure relationship with God might lead us to believe that somehow we automatically, irrespective of our faith response, would receive eternal life, and that baptism would encourage that notion.  Baptists often were critical of the infant baptism position, among other reasons, for this reason too, believing that one who was assured of his salvation would have no inducement to seek God.
           
 My parents would not be guilty of regarding baptism as an automatic ticket to Heaven.  They well knew that faith was necessary, and that the walk of obedience was essential.  But in their preoccupation with the necessity of faith and obedience, those two components--faith and obedience--began to take on the aspect of works that we would someday have to produce in order to obtain our salvation.  Thus, the gospel message in baptism, which was meant to give reinforcement to that faith and provide a sign by which we could direct the very conduct of our earthly walk, was muted.  To the extent that the demonstration of God's message in baptism is dulled or confused, to that extent it fails to be the beautiful certification lesson I believe God intended it to be for us.  Baptism, after all, emphasizes not so much what we believe, or what we are doing or promise to do, as our Baptist friends would stress, but rather what God has done, and thus, who we are because of it. It is centered on God's promise--on what he says--not on our faith, our promise, or what we say.
           
 Yes, God spoke to me shortly after my birth. I would eventually hear him, not so much in that message, but in other ways; and I would respond to him, but that message he provided for me in my baptism didn't come through very clearly.  I tended to think of myself throughout most of my childhood as being just outside of God's love--a potential child of God, to be sure, but not really accepted yet until I did something.  I had the notion that I had to do something first before I could really sing with full honesty: "Jesus loves me."  Baptism was, therefore, as a sacrament, not nearly as vital in my life personally as it might have been.  But I can look back on it now and bless the God who included me in the community of His called out people and sealed his promises to me that Sunday morning in 1928, even though I wasn't aware of it.

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Chapter 3 My Mother's Family

                            
Edward and Hilda Assink


MY HERITAGE: MOTHER'S FAMILY


Ed and Hilda Assink

 My mother, Hilda Eekhoff, was born on June 27, 1896 in northern Wright County in north central Iowa about seven miles southwest of what in two years would become the town of Kanawha.  Her recent ancestry is much better documented than my father's, especially from her mother's side, part of which can be traced back to Jan Bode, my great, great grandfather.
            
That most ancient member of my mother's family that we have record of, Jan Cornelius Bode, was born in 1804 in the province of Oostfriesland (East Friesland) in western Germany.  He emigrated to America with his wife and family in 1854 and settled near German Valley, a small town about five miles southeast of Freeport in northern Illinois.  They became members of the Silver Creek Reformed Church in that community, and Jan and his wife's graves remain to this day in the cemetery adjacent to that church.    
            
Jan Bode became the father of at least two sons, Cornelius and Hendrik (Henry), both of whom became ministers in the Christian Reformed Church, a new denomination that had its origin in 1857 after breaking from the Dutch Reformed Church (today the Reformed Church in America).  Both these men served in helping establish churches in the Midwest for German-speaking people, one of which churches was the Kanawha Christian Reformed Church established under the leadership of Cornelius Bode in 1900.  A son of Henry, Boyd Bode, became a noted philosopher of education and taught at the Universities of Wisconsin and Illinois and for many years at Ohio State University, during which time he also published a number of books and numerous articles in the professional journals of his day.  Boyd Bode was a contemporary of and often interacted with John Dewey, probably the most renowned of all of America's educational philosophers.




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But our concern is with a daughter of Jan Bode, Moederina (or Marina).  Marina was born in Germany on January 1, 1839 and was 15 years old  when the family emigrated to the United States. Marina's future husband, William R. Siemens, was born on July 15, 1822 in Stoppelmauer, East Friesland, Germany.  William had earlier come with his brother to America and to German Valley in 1849, and it was there that he met the 15-year-old Marina.  They were married on November 15, 1854 in German Valley.  This marriage of William Siemens to Marina Bode produced 13 children, of whom six girls and two boys survived childhood.  In 1977 on the occasion of a Siemens family reunion, over 770 direct descendants were counted from this union of William and Marina which had begun 123 years earlier.

The second of those surviving children, Trentje (or Trena), was born on March 21, 1868 and was to become my grandmother.  Trena met and married Harm Peter (H.P.) Eekhoff who was born in Emden, East Friesland, Germany on January 21, 1858.  Harm had come with his parents to America in 1867, settling on a farm near German Valley.  Harm and Trena were married on September 28, 1879 and soon thereafter struck out for the prairies near Hastings, Nebraska where they settled on a Homestead.
            
A year later the rest of the Siemens family also pulled up their stakes, packed their earthly possessions on a train and headed west to join Harm and Trena in this pioneering venture.  Their first home was a sod hut.  While the crops were good in Nebraska, the True Reformed Church which they attended was failing, reportedly because the services were in Dutch while most of the members were German-speaking.  To find a more secure church, the Siemens clan, including Harm and Trena Eekhoff, moved about 200 miles northward, to New Holland near Platte in the South Dakota Territory.  Here there was a thriving Christian Reformed Church, albeit the services were conducted in the Dutch language, the prevailing tongue of most of its members.  Although the Siemens spoke Low-German, it was a dialect which was sufficiently similar to the Dutch to enable them to converse and worship with their new Dutch neighbors.
            
While the community and the church in New Holland were congenial enough, the weather proved to be most hostile.  Six years of drought and near total crop failures had left the families destitute and desperate.  Reverend Henry Bode, Trena's uncle, a former home missionary for the Christian Reformed Church and at that time a pastor in the Wellsburg, Iowa Christian Reformed Church, met with 13  families in New Holland in August of 1890 to discuss and pray about their plight.  Rev. Bode was aware of available land in Wright County in north central Iowa and suggested that a delegation examine the prospects of that area nearly 300 miles to the east.  They did so and were so impressed with the lush, green and well-watered land that they made arrangements for immediate land purchases for all the families.  The following spring of 189I, the families moved by train to Britt, Iowa, and from there by horse and wagons to their new homes.  This group also became the nucleus of the newly formed Wright Christian Reformed Church where William Siemens served as an elder and Grandpa Harm Eekhoff as a deacon on the first Consistory.  Harm would later also serve a number terms as an elder.
William Siemens died in 1909 at the age of 86 years; Marina in 1919 at the age of 80.





Harm and Trena Eekhoff - Kanawha, Ia
Harm and Trena Eekhoff had purchased a farm five miles south and three miles west of where the town of Kanawha is today.  It was here that my mother would be born five years later.   Grandpa and Grandma Eekhoff continued to live on the farm southwest of Kanawha until 1914, at which time they bought a home in the town of Kanawha about a block away from the Christian Reformed Church where they then became members.
            
Grandpa Harm, better known as H.P., died at the age of 72 in August 1930 of what was called "pernicious anemia."  He was, I am told, a voracious reader and was intensely interested in the church and the denomination and its activities.  He served many years as an elder, first in the Wright church, and later in the Kanawha church.  I have no memories of him since I was less than two years old at the time of his death.  Grandma Trena died in January 1936 at the age of 75.  In the last two years of her life she lived for periods of time with her various children including at our home.  She was quite frail during the years I knew her so her personality did not come out very clearly.  I do remember that she did a lot of needle work and dispensed peppermints to us children rather frequently.
            




Mary Peter Jenny - Trena is holding Lilian
Hilda  Harm and Ann

Hilda, Jennie,Lillian, Peter, Mary, Ann, with Harm and Trena
The first of Harm and Trena's children was Jenny, born in South Dakota in 1884.  Jenny married Albert Vander Ploeg who came out of Michigan.  Except for 10 years when Albert ran an implement shop in Kanawha, the family engaged in farming near Kanawha.  They had eight children:  Trena, Sam, Gretchen, Irene, Delia, Anne, Herman and Esther.  Esther died as a five-year old in 1929. 
            
Uncle Albert and Aunt Jenny were both tall and lanky and all their children were too.  Herman was 6'7" and played basketball in high school and later in the United States Army during World War II.  People of that height were rare specimens in those days.  Uncle Albert especially, but Aunt Jenny too, had a wry sense of humor, a humor that most of the Vander Ploeg children inherited.  Most of them too, except Irene, who remained single,  would marry and settle in the Kanawha area or regions nearby.  Gretchen taught school for a while and would become my first grade teacher.  Aunt Jenny died at age 90, 20 years after her husband.
           
Aunt Mary was born probably about 1889 or 1890 and lived to be almost 100.  She was a live-wire, flamboyant, dark-haired, dark-skinned, thin and aggressively sociable.  She married John Roskamp and they lived for a number of years on a farm southwest of Kanawha which they named the Clover Leaf Farm and had those letters placed accross the front of the barn.  This was the farm where I would later spend most of my growing-up years.  John and Mary then moved to Grundy Center and later to Cedar Falls, Iowa.  John being a very a creative person was able to invent and take out a patent on an oat-huller, developing it into a thriving business which his son Harold continues to carry on to this day in Cedar Falls.  John lived to be 95 years of age.
            
John and Mary had five daughters and three sons, most of whom were quite genial and extroverted.  They are: Pearl, Tressa, Cornelia, Hermina, Clarence, Jane, Harold and Cromwell.  Since all of them were considerably older than I and always lived a considerable distance from us, later scattering all over the country, I did not get to know them very well.  I would get to know  Cornelia somewhat better because she lived in Grand Rapids when I went to Calvin and I would visit her and her family occasionally.  Cromwell became a pastor in the Orthodox Presbyterian Church.  To the best of my knowledge all the children are still living at the time of this writing.
            
Uncle Pete was the only boy in my mother's family.  He married Marie Johnson and then, without having had any education beyond grade school, decided that he should enter the ministry.  He attended Dubuque (Iowa) Seminary of the Presbyterian Church and later served Presbyterian congregations in Muscoda, Wisconsin; West Bend and Waterloo, Iowa; and then closed out his ministry in Aplington, Iowa, where he would retire and reside until his death at the age of 72.  Uncle Pete was a real card in his younger years and as children we would always delight in his yearly visits to our home.  Often he would preach in our church in Kanawha when he was on vacation.
            
Peter and Marie had five children.  Two sons, Herman and Pete, became farmers near Kanawha; Wiert, like his father, became a Presbyterian minister, as would Wiert's son following him.  His daughters, Stella and Thelma, married and lived near Applington, Iowa.
            
Aunt Annie was just older than mother and would be my mother's closest sister.  Annie married Bert Roskamp, brother of John who was her sister Mary's husband already described.  Quite early in their married life, Bert and Annie moved to Manhattan, Montana where Bert taught for a while in the Manhattan Christian School.  Later they moved to a farm near Grundy Center, Iowa where I first came to know them in the early 1930's.  This was followed by moves to two different farms near Kanawha; and then, approximately 1947, the whole family moved to Sunnyside, Washington where they continued in farming.
            
Bert and Annie had two boys, Charles and Herman; and two girls, Theressa and Pearl.  The older son, Charles, remained a bachelor, while Herman took over the family farm and immediately proceeded to purchase additional land, eventually to become a millionaire.  Unfortunately, when land prices plummeted in the early 1980's, he went bankrupt and never recovered.  All the children remained in the state of Washington.  Two of Theressa's children, Charles and Robert Uken, have become ministers in the Christian Reformed Church. Both Uncle Bert and Aunt Annie could be quite jovial; but they also had a very religious side which, when they reverted to that side, could make them very serious people--too serious, I thought.  Aunt Annie lived beyond her 95th birthday.
            
Aunt Lillian--"Lil" my mother called her--was three years younger than Mom.  I don't know why, but she moved out to Yakima, Washington and married a Jim Vander Sluis--or did she marry Jim Vander Sluis and move to Yakima?  In either case, we would receive letters from Washington about every so often with pictures of Jim and Lil and their only  daughter, Beth.  Jim suffered from muscular dystrophy--or was it multiple sclerois?--and died at a fairly young age.  Aunt Lil later moved to Denver where she continued to live until her death at approximately 80 years of age.

In many ways, my mother's side of the family was more colorful than father's.  They were more aggressive socially and were, it seemed, with a slight streak of craziness, always actively intent on making a good time.  They were adventuresome too, sometimes to the point of recklessness.  "Let's do it," and they would charge in.  "Nothing risked, nothing gained."  As their histories will attest, most of them moved often and scattered far from their home base.  The Eekhoffs were also more expressive of their faith and more inclined to be active in it, in both their words and deeds.  Involvement in the church and its activities was accepted as a given.



                                                                 NOTES ON THIS CHAPTER



              1.       The whole story of the Siemens family and their pioneering adventures from German Valley to Nebraska, to South Dakota, and finally to Iowa, has been chronicled in a book published in 1977 by Dorothy Primus entitled Dear Ones.  The book is well-written and stands on its own merit apart from the personal interest one might have in
             
               2.       The Bode family has been quite illustrious.  A Banner series written in 1980 entitled "The German Element in the CRC" described something of the settlement in German Valley and highlighted the "amazing Bodes" in one of the articles.
            
                3.       The achievements and philosophy of Boyd Bode, who, alas, appears to have forsaken the faith of his forebears, are the main focal points of a book by Dr. Norman De Jong entitled Christianity and Democracy, published in 1978. Boyd was the son of Rev. Henry Bode and was born in German Valley in 1873.  Boyd went to William Penn College followed by programs at the University of Michigan and then at Cornell University where he got his Ph.D.  It was at the latter school where, much to the dismay of his father, Boyd began to forsake his Calvinistic Christian moorings.  Boyd accepted a teaching position at the University of Wisconsin in 1904, and in 1909 was given a full professorship to the University of Illinois.  By this time he was well-established in philosophical circles and had already begun his interaction with the famed Professor John Dewey. In 1921 Bode accepted a position at Ohio State University where he remained until his retirement in 1944.He died in 1953
           
                4.       The above book also mentions that the Bodes would certainly have witnessed the        famous Lincoln-Douglas debate held in nearby Freeport in 1858. It was in that debate that Lincoln, then a candidate for the U.S. Senate, articulated his famous Freeport Doctrine  relative to slavery, and gained for himself the attention needed to later run for the Presidency.

                                 

Chapter 2: My Heritage - Father's Family

  
Edward Diedrich Assink
My father, Edward Diedrich Assink, was born to Hendrick and Christina (Ennen) Assink on March 5, 1889, the fourth of seven children.  Grandfather Hendrick, son of Ben John Assink, was born about 1839 in the Netherlands close to the German border.  We know little about his early life in the Netherlands other than that he supervised a crew of road workers for at least a period of time, and that he was single and 40 years old when he emigrated to America.  After arriving in this country he spent some time near Shell Rock, Iowa, where he met and, in 1883, married Stena Ann Ennen.
  
      
Stena, sometimes referred to as Christena, daughter of Gerhart and Anna Ennen, was born on July 25, 1856, in the Province of Bentheim in western Germany.  At the age of 24 years, she and her sister left her native land and emigrated to the United States, settling near Shell Rock, Iowa.  







 


Hendrick and Stena's Farm          
After their marriage Hendrick and Stena moved to a 160 acre farm in southern Hancock County in northcentral Iowa, approximately 70 miles to the west and north of Shell Rock.  This land had been acquired by a previous owner through the provisions of the Homestead Act enacted by the United States Government in 1862 as a means of encouraging the settlement of vacant land in the states and territorial possessions.  Just how my grandparents acquired the land is unknown to me.  The railroads were being built and were interlacing the prairies of the Midwest, making the transportation of goods and produce possible; consequently, for the first time ever, the virgin prairies were being plowed up and cultivated with crops.
            
Whether Grandpa Assink came to this country with family, I do not know.  I do know that years later in the Cedar Falls, Iowa area, quite near Shell Rock, there were Assinks who had apparently descended from his cousins.  The Assink Brothers construction materials plant was located just north of the river on highway 218 in Cedar Falls.  My Grandma Assink had relatives near Allison and Shell Rock that I recall visiting in my childhood bearing such surnames as Bower, Lubben, and Hartwig.
           
Hendrick, Stena,  names to follow...
Hendrick and Stena brought Gertie, George and Ben into the world before my father was born; and Annie, Albert and Henry after that.  Grandpa Hendrick would die of diphtheria in April 1908 at the age of 69.  Grandma Stena would survive for another 25 years until she succumbed to cancer in February 1933 at the age of 76.  I was just over four years old at her death and remember very little about her except that she was quite heavy, had a big wart on her cheek and usually sat in the same chair.
            





Prior to the formation of the local Christian Reformed Church, the family worshiped with a German-speaking Evangelical Church which met in a nearby country school building.  This church, if I understand correctly, was basically the church of Martin Luther which bore the name of "Evangelical" in Germany, but which became known as Lutheran in America.  The Reverend Cornelius Bode, an uncle of my mother, had been sent to north central Iowa by the Christian Reformed Church to gather in all the German-speaking  people of Reformed background to form a church.  My grandparents had belonged to Reformed churches in Germany and the Netherlands and were, therefore, eager to make the switch.  The resulting congregation, which also enfolded some of the other German-speaking people from the Evangelical Church, was established in the town of Kanawha in the year 1900.  My father's family were among the charter members of that congregation with Grandpa Hendrick being an elder on the first consistory.

The oldest child, Aunt Gertie, married Fred Freerksen and eventually divorced him after bearing six children and enduring considerable spouse abuse.  In my childhood, she was the only divorced person that I knew personally.  Their oldest son, George, became a Baptist minister, serving pastorates mainly in Minnesota.  Henry, Tena, Theoline and Alfred, moved to different parts of the country.  Theoline, who never married, later came back to Kanawha.  Ione remained in Kanawha all his life.  Aunt Gertie was a very mild mannered, kind woman.  She died at approximately 80 years of age in the early 1960's.  All her children have also died, most of them considerably short of the three score and ten years proverbially allotted to us.
            
The second born, Uncle George, left the family farm in approximately 1914, and headed off to Wheaton College near Chicago to study for the ministry.  There he met Ruth Barrow, from near Chicago I believe, and later married her.  Ruth soon acquired certain health problems which necessitated that she move to a warmer climate.  Thus, with intentions of perhaps picking up on a career in evangelism later, George and Ruth in 1919 headed down to Mississippi, bought 160 acres of scraggly-timbered farm land near Brookhaven, set up a farming operation, and didn't return to see his Iowa kin until 30 years later in 1949.  George and Ruth had three children:  Noel, Albert and Dorothy.  Albert died at about age 15.  Noel and Dorothy became high-ranking career officers in the Air Force and eventually retired back in Mississippi, Dorothy on her parents' original farm.  Uncle George died in the early l960's at about age 70; Aunt Ruth survived him by at least a decade.  Noel had five children who have scattered all over the southland; whereas, Dorothy married late in life and remained childless.  My first visit with them in Mississippi in the spring of 1986 gave me the chance to meet Dorothy, Noel and most of Noel's family.  Noel has since become deceased.
           
Ben, Henry, Ed, Gertie, Annie

Uncle Ben married Annie Smidt.  Not long after their marriage they headed off to Columbus, Montana where they engaged in farming and brought six children into the world. Apparently there had been some question about whether Uncle Ben or my father should take over the homestead.  It appears that my grandmother favored the younger of the two.  When  my father married in January 1916, Aunt Annie is reported to have said with some decisiveness: "We're going to Montana!"  And they did.  When Grandma Assink died in 1933, something was worked out so that Ben's family could return and take over the homestead, while my parents availed themselves of the opportunity to move to a farm south of  Kanawha belonging to my mother's family.  Uncle Ben continued on the old Assink homestead until about 1946 when the farm was sold by the family, and Ben moved to a farm a mile north of there.  Two of Uncle Ben's family, George and Alfred, would stay in the Kanawha area, while Henry and Alvin settled in southern California.  Helen married and made her home in Pella, Iowa; and Harlan became a commercial air line pilot and lived in Virginia.  Harlan would die in a tragic white water rafting accident in Alaska in the late 1980's.  Uncle Ben died in his 70's while living in retirment in Kanawha.  Aunt Annie survived him by about 15 years.
            
My father was the next in the family, being born in 1889.  He would live on the homestead until 1934.  After the death of his father in 1908, he and his brothers, along with Grandma, ran the farm until Grandma moved to Kanawha in 1915.  My father had just previously met Hilda Eekhoff whose family had moved from a farm in Wright County into the town of Kanawha and had begun attending the Kanawha Christian Reformed Church.  Hilda, I am told, served on occasion as the organist for the Kanawha church.  Since it was a pump organ requiring someone to keep air pumped into it, my father enlisted in that yeoman's role, a factor which may have incited or enflamed his attraction for her and led him at age 26 to marry the 19-year old blond who would become my mother.  My parents were married on January 20, 1916, nearly 13 years before I would come on the scene.
            
Aunt Annie was just younger than my father and was probably his favorite sibling.  She married Bill Alke, a German Lutheran, and moved with him 30 miles away to Titonka where they set up farming and raised a family of eight children.  Their oldest son, Henry, would die of spinal meningitis while in the Army during World War II.  A daughter, Mary, would marry a Lutheran minister.  The others, Christina, John, George, Volina, Anna, Ida and Bill, all settled in various locations throughout northern Iowa.  As of this writing these cousins all continue to maintain fairly close contact with my brothers and the other Assink cousins in Iowa.  Uncle Albert died a short time before or after Grandpa Assink in 1908 at about the age of 15. He was slender and a blond.  My father remarked on occasion that I resembled him somewhat.
            
Uncle Henry, the youngest in Father's family, went off to the Army in World War I from 1917 to 1918 and served as a medic.  He saw frontline action in France and was seriously wounded by a mortar shrapnel.  A telegram came to Grandma Assink notifying her that her son had been killed in action.  Some time later, however, she received a letter from Henry in which he mentioned that he had been wounded and was in the hospital.  Hope was greatly aroused when the date indicated on the letter was later than the presumed date of his death.  A second letter, shortly after that, verified his continued life.  Uncle Henry was partially disabled as a result of that experience and later acquired diabetes. He never married, lived with his mother until her death in 1933, and then lived alone until his own death in the early 1960's.  I got to know Uncle Henry quite well.  He would often come to the farm where I first lived and repair things or help out wherever he could.  Later, while my parents would visit him after church on Sundays, I would drink many a cup of coffee at his house, sweetened with saccharine and lightened with carnation condensed milk.  He was a very kind, gentle and pliable person, not above bending an ear to a young lad.  He was devout, and often served as an elder in the Kanawha Christian Reformed Church.  I wish now that I had asked him more about his experiences in the first World War.

As I look back on my father's family, I see them as generally placid, kind, hard-working and steady people, seldom afflicted with the vice of excessive aggressiveness or guilty of reckless adventure.  They seemed to be contented and free of bitterness and resentment. They talked freely, but were certainly not characterized by joviality or boisterousness.  In keeping with their temperament, they tended to be physically rather heavy, my father and Uncle Henry being exceptions to that rule.  None of them were very expressive of the intimacies of their Christian faith, but all of them were faithful church-goers and concerned about being good Christian people.  Uncle Ben, who had lived a couple of decades in Montana, seemed somewhat less devoted to the faith, a judgment based, perhaps too much, on his tendency to be a "oncer" in his attendance at services on Sunday.  While I never really got to know Uncle George in Mississippi, the fact that he sought to enter the ministry suggested something about his commitment to the faith.  I was pleased to discover later in my visit to Mississippi in 1986 that his children and grandchildren would continue to be firmly established in that faith, most of them associated with Methodist churches in the South.